Every minute thing that you do each day, whether it be what you say, what you think, or what you do, is entirely under yourcontrol. So do not go around justifying your actions because of something somebody else did, or said. When you do this it is called making excuses, and guess what? Nobody cares to hear you blame your actions on somebody else.
Can’t control your thoughts?
Can’t controlyour anger?
Can’t control yourfood consumption?
Can’t control your stress?
Can’t control your bad habits?
Do you feel super shitty all the time?
Are you always pissed off?
Then this also extends towards you.
Nobody else has complete and utter control over you.
You are the only person that has complete control over your actions, and your emotions.
You have nobody to blame if you are unhappy with your decisions, your actions, your outlook on life, or your relationships with other people, but yourself.
Stop making excuses for your behavior.
Start taking accountability for your actions, this is yourlife.
“‘I’m bored’ is a useless thing to say. I mean, you live in a great, big, vast world that you’ve seen none percent of. Even the inside of your own mind is endless; it goes on forever, inwardly, do you understand? The fact that you’re alive is amazing, so you don’t get to say ‘I’m bored.’”—
If you are upset about the verdict, wish there was something you could do to show that you care, then go here http://www.change.org/petitions/create-caylees-law. Sign this petition to create a law that will make it a felony for a parent or guardian not to notify law enforcement that a child is missing in a timely manner. Justice for Caylee.
15. Your zodiac and if you think it fits your personality
Libras are the diplomat of the zodiac. They are able to put themselves in other’s shoes and see things through another person’s point of view. They are the ones that always want to make things right and have balance and harmony in their life, their surroundings and the lives of the people close to them. They have captivating charm, elegant taste and they are easy to like due to their eager-to-please, easygoing nature. In return for a Libra’s amazing ability to be a good listener, sooth and calm people, they expect admiration. Libras will gather a group of people, everyone will become friends then the Libra will be in the center of the group. They like the attention and the admiration for the people that they have brought together. Libras are very intelligent, they often hide this inside their easygoing exterior. They express their intelligence through creativity, most are involved in some sort of artistic or creative pursuit. Many people overlook just how intelligent a Libra actually is. When others see a Libras wide range of interests and hobbies, their intelligence and creativity is more then obvious. Libras love variety and different situations. They welcome change. Libras love luxury. They will spend lots of money and surround themselves with beautiful things and they seem to be constantly fussing over their appearance. They love anything upscale and classy. Libras work hard to please others, this they do an others find them incredibly captivating.
One thing is certain, I am a peacemaker. Contention annoys the hell out of me. I just want everybody to get along. I’m also very even tempered. This explains me almost perfectly. The only things I would have to disagree with are: I am not constantly fussing over my appearance, and I’m not to concerned with anything luxurious, upscale, or classy.
“It is not complicated unless I make it so. It is not difficult unless I allow it to be. A second is no more than a second, a minute no more than a minute, a day no more than a day. They pass. All things and all time will pass. Don’t force or fear, don’t control or lose control. Don’t fight and don’t stop fighting. If you embrace, you will endure.”—James Frey.
“In the West, you have bigger homes, yet smaller families; you have endless conveniences — yet you never seem to have any time. You can travel anywhere in the world, yet you don’t bother to cross the road to meet your neighbours.”— Tenzin Gyatso, 14th Dalai Llama. (via justraachel)
“That’s the whole trouble. You can’t ever find a place that’s nice and peaceful, because there isn’t any. You may think there is, but once you get there, when you’re not looking, somebody’ll sneak up and write ‘Fuck you’ right under your nose.”—Holden Caulfield, Catcher in the Rye (via castiowl)
“Among other things, you’ll find that you’re not the first person who was ever confused and frightened and even sickened by human behavior. You’re by no means alone on that score, you’ll be excited and stimulated to know. Many, many men have been just as troubled morally and spiritually as you are right now. Happily, some of them kept records of their troubles. You’ll learn from them—if you want to. Just as someday, if you have something to offer, someone will learn something from you. It’s a beautiful reciprocal arrangement. And it isn’t education. It’s history. It’s poetry.”—
“It was curious to think that the sky was the same for everybody… and the people under the sky were also very much the same everywhere, all over the world, hundreds or thousands of millions of people just like this, people ignorant of one another’s existence, held apart by walls of hatred and lies, and almost exactly the same,”—1984 by George Orwell (via electriques)
Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given, than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.
I’ve already done another 30 day challenge with this same question. Here it is though!
I get irritated by people who use their life’s struggles as an excuse for being inconsiderate.
“I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul.”
Life is what you make of it. Do not make excuses for your behavior. Do not dwell on the past. Do not have the “I am a victim” mentality. Use your experience of the struggles that you have gone through to make yourself a better person.
“How we survive is what makes us who we are.”
There’s ample amounts of people in the world that are too worried about their own problems to realize that everybody around us is fighting some sort of battle. Put aside your own problems, and help some one who is more in need than you.
I believe strongly in: learning lessons from the misfortunes that I have been handed, and putting other people’s needs before my own. I try my hardest to be as selfless as I can be.